Describe a time when you helped a child
You should say:
When it was
How you helped him/her
Why you helped him/her
And how you felt about it
“帮助小孩的经历”是经历类的新题,这题大家可能会有些犯难,不是很日常的事情。从以下角度可以给大家做一下唤醒:因为工作原因和小孩接触、是朋友亲人的小孩、在路上遇到的陌生孩子,具体下文会详细描述。
另外一种想法是根据自己小时候被帮助的经历去置换角色,实在没有思路的话,我们就根据以上三种场景去”编故事“。
这道题目其实不太容易做串题,大家可以尝试看看:
在一个“有趣的城市”旅游,在景点”长距离的步行”遇到了一个走丢的孩子,帮孩子找到了家长,孩子送了我一个”免费的物品“/“特殊的蛋糕”,这个孩子是我“见过一次想要了解更多的人”。
这个小问主要交代一下故事的背景,可以囊括时间、地点、缘由(为什么去这个地方)。时间具体展开可以是年份、季节、假日、时间点等,地点和缘由相结合,比如是旅游的途中、回家路上、去朋友或亲戚家的时候。
此处可以聊一下遇到的困难+你提供的解决办法(可以不止一个解决办法)。困难比如是小朋友迷路了、丢东西了、要做作业等等,你帮助TA也是从两方面,一种是先安抚TA的情绪(比如给小朋友吃糖,或者抱抱小朋友等),另一种是帮他解决这个问题(找警察叔叔,原地等家长等等)
讲帮助的原因有几条可以给大家参考:一是觉得助人为乐是一种很好的品质,我也是一直奉行着这种精神;二是看到孩子非常无助和可怜,心生不忍,要去帮忙,而且如果没有立刻帮忙解决的话,担心会有不好的后果(比如被坏人带走等)相信大部分人都会这么做的;第三种可以是碍于朋友或者亲戚的情面/正因为是好朋友或亲人,要帮他们的孩子做某事。
两个方向给大家参考,一个是自己心理活动的变化,比如一开始想会不会是自己多管闲事,中途也为孩子感到担忧,后面帮到了孩子还是很开心的。第二个也可以谈谈自己从中是否有学到什么,比如孩子乐观、坚强,或者是自己在当中的坚持善念等等。
下面是关于这个话题可以延伸出来的思维图:
I was a volunteer at an elementary school where the students are mostly in grade 1 or 2. They have Chinese classes every Saturday, and I work as a teaching assistant. In most cases, I need to help them with their writing, reading and general learning. For example, when they are facing problems like do not know how to read some characters, I can reteach them, and tell them some tips to remember. When there are quarrels in the classroom, I will need to talk with each student and calm everyone down to set the class environment back to normal.
The reason why I am glad to be the volunteer at the school is that I like kids, and I feel fulfilled and joyful when I am with them and help them. There was one foreign kid who is not from China, and he came to the class just because he likes Chinese. He shocked me a lot and I respect him because of his courage to blend into an unfamiliar environment.
There was another girl who is sweet and quiet in class, she also performs a strong learning ability and good marks. Once her parents pick her up late, she talked with me a lot and shared some of her own stories with me. I felt trusted and we struck up a close friendship,which is meaningful and fun for me. I learned a lot from this volunteer experience. I discovered my ability of teaching and my willingness to help kids. It is one of my precious memories.
亮点表达:
work as a teaching assistant 担任助教
set sth. back to normal 使...恢复正常
fulfilled and joyful 心满意足
pick sb up 接某人
strike up a close friendship 建立亲密的友谊 |